Manar Hussein grew up in New Jersey and regularly spent time at the beach and her local pool when she was a child. One day, she noticed guests at the pool demanding that the lifeguard kick out a woman who was wearing a burkini. “No one stood up for her. No one did anything,” the Muslim woman recalled, noting the incident was one of the reasons she chose not to swim for many years after she started wearing a hijab.
Manar is one of 30 people HuffPost U.S. reporter Rowaida Abdelaziz spoke with for her article about swimming as a Muslim woman in America. “Not all of their experiences were negative,” Rowaida said, noting some had never encountered a problem. “Muslim women were also motivated to swim for different reasons, whether it was for their kids or wanting to become avid swimmers.”
But many women who desire to cover up at pools — a group that goes beyond just Muslims — still run into pushback from facility staff who don’t believe their attire is appropriate. “These institutions need to take a hard look at the environment they are setting up and who are they leaving out and ensure that their rules and those who enforce them are sensitive to and culturally aware of the diversity around them,” Rowaida said.
Rowaida, who talked with some of the women in the story for almost a year before it was published, tried to make the women feel comfortable while also finding ways to illustrate their reality. “To me, that meant hiring a photographer who was of the same background to help create a safe space for these women to be who they were,” she said, noting that photographer Khoolod Eid and the photo team carried that out deftly.
The responses Rowaida received to the article have included messages from Islamophobic trolls but also from many women who relate to the topic at hand. In addition, “many women have reached out to me stating they cover for nonreligious reasons and stood in solidarity with Muslim women,” she said.
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